[Ambiance]

I'd just like to say on the flipside of this, I hate receiving oral and I always have to deal with guys trying to convince me that they're good at doing it and I just haven't been with someone who was good at doing it. 9/10, I just don't like it. Something about all of the sensories involved specifically is unnappealing to me. And in this situation, you would say, someone shouldn't have to receive an action they don't want sexually. The same goes vice verse; you shouldn't have to give one either. However, I understand why you might be upset without knowing why he doesn't want to do it. I would just try and have a conversation about it with him and see. I will say that I know it's kind of no fun sometimes being with someone who's not open to new things sexually, and I've been in two relationships where I couldn't really explore the things I wanted to and this was a bummer. Often, you can communicate about it as much as you want when there is something that you want to do and the other person doesn't, but it's likely that you may just have to accept, maybe only in this one aspect of sexual activity or maybe more, that you're not completely sexually compatible. And eventually, you have to decide if this is a dealbreaker or not. It might sound shallow to end a relationship over sexual compatibility, but really, good sex is important in a long-term ordeal, and if you're not compatible, it is likely to damage things eventually.

but like everyone said, all you can do is talk to him and respect his boundaries.