[taylalatbh.]

Some guys just don't like to do it, just like some girls don't like to do it either. He shouldn't have to feel pressured into doing something that he doesn't want to do and it's unfair of you to keep asking when he's told you that he doesn't want to.

I'm sure he appreciates that you're clean down there, and he enjoys having sex with you, but just doesn't want to go down on you and you need to respect that. If not having oral sex is such a big deal for you then you need to have a good think about the relationship. It's your problem, not his, and you'll have to deal with it.