[stelles]

My cousin had a very similar experience - her dad's family went around in a circle and complained about all the things she had done wrong with her in the room. I'm not really sure what parents and family members are hoping to accomplish with this. I think it would be a good idea for you to ask your family exactly what they were trying to say with this list... like, "FYI, here's everything wrong with you. Good night." or more like, "Here's some things you've done wrong that you should fix." Niether option is a good excuse for this, and I totally understand your reasoning for not wanting to please them at all after this. I would suggest either talking to your parents about it or putting the list behind you. Everyone has flaws and it doesn't mean you're a terrible person
good luck, sorry if that totally didn't help