[SpecterH]

To clarify, I don't think taylalatbh. implied that kissing was bad at your age. She simply meant that kissing isn't the most important thing in relationships - ever. Even when you're older, kissing shouldn't be a huge deal. It shouldn't make or break your relationship because the bond that you two share should be what matters - not the physical way of illustrating it.

But, to echo everyone else: it's normal to be in your situation. Some people are simply more shy than others. At thirteen years old, this whole "dating" thing is new to both boys and girls, and sometimes it takes a while to adapt to the new relationship. Twelve weeks is not a long time at all, so just be patient.