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Name: Angie
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Join Date: January 6th 2014
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Re: Returning to self harm -
March 23rd 2014, 04:36 AM
hey there,
I'm sorry what you are going through. I just want to let you know suicide is never the answer. People are worried about you is because they care! Even I care and I haven't met you in real life! I understand that the pain is so hard to deal with. I want you to know it gets better. You can overcome it! But you will have to take some pretty scary steps. And that is letting you pshyciatirst know what you want private sessions.
Just speaking from experience. I say a lot easier to share things in private sessions speaking from experience. Trust me, it's probably a lot easier for her as well cause she can just focus on you and not anyone else. You can just ask for a couple private then A few with your mom. That means your mom can go to some... And nothing should be shared with your mom what you say in private sessions. It's a lot easier to do it solo. Just ask your mom if you can try one session alone. It could make them a lot stressful! (I get stressed if I go with my mom)
But I think you should tell her that you are getting worse. That can tell her that she should try another option. Which will help both of you. It's the best to be honest.. Don't tell them what they want to hear. It doesn't help any of you all. I made that mistake and I'm basically back to square one..
If you have any other questions feel free to PM/VM me
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