[SpecterH]

Of course it's possible to find a guy like this; many women do. Unfortunately, while in high schools, most males tend to be a bit immature. I'm not suggesting that every high school male is immature, but I think it's safe to say that the vast majority are. That needs to be expected.

That being said, though, it's not impossible to find a good guy while in high school. I dated my high school boyfriend for two and a half years, and he was a pretty good guy. In hindsight, he wasn't the one for me, so I'm glad that we broke up when we did. But, the point is: it is possible to find a good guy, even when you're young. I'm probably a lot pickier than you are (trust me), and I still managed to have a long-term relationship throughout high school.

As you get older, you're going to meet a lot of people - some guys are going to be great, and others aren't going to be so great. I think it's important, especially as such a young person, to keep an open mind. Your preferences in relationships will change as you get older, and you need to be prepared for that. It's all apart of growing up.

Don't worry so much about whether or not you're going to find the right guy. You will; I can promise you that. When? That, I'm not too sure about. But, take advantage of being young. Explore everything that there is to explore. Make friends, start relationships, end relationships, and everything else that comes with that. Dating the "bad guys" helps you determine what you want in a relationship - and that information is tremendously valuable.

Good luck.