[stelles]

Your parents are trying, but definitely not doing very well. They probably don't know too much about self harm. Try talking to them. If that doesn't work, you can send them some websites or articles that explain self harm (they might ignore these or say they're wrong but it's worth a shot). I think you should talk to your counselor about it, even though your parents told you not to. Your counselor would probably be able to explain self harm to them, and help you recover.

Talking to your parents is definitely important. Let them know that they aren't helping. They are trying to help, but they don't understand that it isn't working. Communication with them is important if you want them to understand them. Also, if you tell your counselor and they are mad at you for doing so, explain why you did it. Let them know that you appreciate the attempt at help, but that it isn't actually very helpful.

It's probably good that someone knows, even though your parents aren't helpful. Once they get over the initial surprise of learning that you self harm, and after getting more information, they will hopefully be more helpful and supportive. Good luck, and message me if you need anything!