I know you read what I post on this forum, and though I detest family nosiness, want to tell you that the tobacco I smoke is entirely is paid for out of my own pocket. You have no goddamn right telling ME not to smoke when YOU puff away on a joint. Yeah, I know your secret ways. Can even smell the stuff on your clothes. So don't come the aggroshit with me at home, trying to shame me in front my sibs. You don't tell me what to do - not now, not any time. You're not my mother and you're most certainly not my CPO and have charge of me. So Sod Off.