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Originally Posted by Ambiance
Question one: Can you "always" love someone like that, but keep it on the backburner if you know it will never work out?
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Yes, you can but maybe not as intense as you do now..
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Question three: Sometimes I think if I can forgive him as a person and just make peace with the fact that we will never work out as a couple, I would feel better, and I could forgive my friend and that girl as well, and then I would feel way better. But I'm really bitter and I just haven't gotten the courage to really forgive any of them.
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It is best that you forgive them but you need not forgive them right this instant. Its completely ok and understandable if you don't. Once you get over the hurt and move on from all these things that have happened, you will eventually forgive them or feel like doing so!
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Question four: I'm really starting to feel like I'm ready to date again and there's a few people that are potentially interested. I'm not ready to commit to a new boyfriend, of course, but I kind of feel like getting back out there a bit would help me.
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If you feel like dating, you certainly have all the rights to. Especially, if it helps you. But if you dont want to get serious, just be sure to tell the person whom you're dating in a way that doesn't hurt his feelings..
Hope I helped!