I've always been empathic when it comes to sensing situations, and much as I have tried to fit in with the forum, I just don't think it's going to work out here so I am actively looking elsewhere. I think one either gels with other members and get their interest, or you don't. On my part it's not been without trying, either.
Thus far I have found a semi-professional horticulturalist forum which is very interesting and its members, though much, much older are taking greater interest in my contributions. Quite heartening, really...and then I try and log into
TH, only to find it's server has gone on a smoke break for 24 hours...and when I finally do log in - Christ, it's like pissing into the wind.