[GroovyDoodle]

Originally Posted by Jake

Girls:
Can your feelings for someone change, negatively or positively overnight? Like for someone who you aren't in a relationship with for whatever reason? Say a good friend.

Like.. one day you can't get them out of your head and you're telling them you love them, then say.. you see this new person who you are attracted to or something, then you're just like meh about the other person..

Has it happened to you before? Would the "meh" behavior just be related to a bad day or something, or maybe nervousness? Or would it be just loss of interest for whatever reason?

Girls really do confuse me :\

Yes, I think this has happened to me before. The whole "meh" behavior usually has something to do with something that person said or did rather than my attraction to another person, though that has affected it before as well. I don't know, my feelings are confusing. It's okay for you to be confused, too. We don't make much sense.

Guys: Say you're dating a girl you're in love with and you tell her she's beautiful, but she's actually unattractive (in her opinion anyways). Are you doing this because you feel the need to raise her self-esteem? Or do you really think she's attractive? Or is this a white lie to save your ass?