[dancinfool]

On the text message front, one thing I would say is to make sure that you sometimes (even regularly! :P) send text messages without her sending one first, at random times of the day. Even if its just a short message saying what you are doing or telling her about something that made you think of her. My boyfriend does this and I have to say it makes me feel a lot more secure - if someone takes a while to reply and you're feeling a bit paranoid you might wonder, but if only yesterday morning he sent you a text 'unasked' for then that helps. If you already do this then I take it back! :P If it would help, maybe you could even set a reminders on your phone to do so.