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Hi there!

I just want to point out that there's a difference between finding someone attractive and wanting to be in a relationship with them. Me and my boyfriend comment on attractive people we see all the time but that doesn't mean that one of us is going to leave the other to try and get with this person.

I think you're reading too much into this, he's in a relationship with you isn't he? Yes, he said this other girl was hot but has he given you any hints that he would leave you for her? From your post it sounds like he hasn't.

Try not to dwell on it too much because it will end up making your relationship suffer. If it really is affecting you a lot then I'd suggest just having a word with him and asking him not to say things like that in front of you as it hurts your feelings and makes you feel inadequate. If he cares about you then I'm sure he'll listen.

I hope this helps, take care