[Chris]

Hi there, John.

I'm sorry that no one responded to this thread sooner.

Well, Friday is now over, so I'm left wondering what you decided to do! I feel as if you should continue to see both of them. Meaning, go out on a date (or several dates) and see where things go with #2! In regards to girl #1, continue to have brief conversations with her, and let everything else be. If things with girl #2 fail to work out, you can try with girl #1.

You're in no way obligated to either of these girls. And even if you're taking a girl out on a date to see where things can go, that only restricts you to a certain extent. Meaning you're not in a relationship with that person, but instead you're trying to figure out if you would like to enter a relationship with her. While entertained in that process of figuring that out, you can most certainly "talk" to other girls and keep the communication open.

As I said, explore both fields, see where one goes and then go from there. If you make a decision and pick just one girl to explore if you would like to be with her or not and shut down the other girl, then you will most likely end up regretting your decision in the end. So keep open your door to a possible relationship that any girl can walk through at any time (i.e., don't put restrictions or limitations on yourself while exploring your options).


Best wishes,
Chris