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Re: Help! My boyfriend likes some other girl! - December 7th 2013, 12:45 AM

Exactly what michael said!

But as you said here
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This girl is 10 times skinnier than me, she really does look like ariana grande, and has great teeth, while mine remain all lopsided. She wears this vanilla perfume, when all i depend on is my soap and deodorant.
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i can go on and on for days on how she is better than me.
Now a key reminder here is that she isn't exactly better than you. Especially not in relationship terms, for my opinion at the least, relationship qualities such as Smell, Wealth, Attraction, is Minor importance to the Big qualities that are VERY important to the relationship

that being, Personality, Humour, Generosity, Kindness, Trustworthy, Caring, etc etc.

If your boyfriend would prefer this other girl because shes 'Hotter' than you, then your boyfriend is simply No good at all.

There's a fine line between Love and sexual attraction, Many teens mix the two up, and always say ' I love you ' but generally, they don't love You, they just love your Looks.

If you see what i'm getting at, If he would prefer this girl because shes Just 'hotter' then he is a fool and is not worth your time.

I mean fair enough, You think shes hotter than you, but you may be More Nicer, Friendlier, kinder, smarter, more trustworthy, funny, etc etc than she is.


Just remember, real love isn't about appearance.

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And i dont want to break up with him if he says it again. And i dont want to brush it off my shoulder
You do need to make a decision, for him to have the Cheek to Yell 'Shes Hot' right infront of you, then he doesn't have any respect for you or your feelings.

Me personally, i'd break up with him, just because the relationship is a short time and you've already learned alot of things about him, how he thinks Apperance is more important in a relationship, the lack of respect he has for his partner, etc.

However i suppose you could sit down and talk it to him, But from what i know, alot of people like this don't change their views on it, but you can give it a shot.

But, i'd still advise breaking up. Since it'd save you so much heart ache. But its your choice.