[monkeygirl123]

Thanks for the advice. I'll join the conversation when it comes up (my friends aren't the type to not bring that up). The weird part is, she says she isn't depressed about anything and that she wasn't doing it to cope with something, she said she just sort of ends up doing it. and she's always seemed cheerful, she has a lot of friends, and does extremely well in school - straight As, all advanced classes, applying for top school in the state. It was really a surprise because of all this.