The title says it all, really. Me and my girlfriend are planning to have sex next month (New Year's Eve, it's her first time so we want to make it special). Thing is, she's a bit too tight and I'm a bit big - what do we do? I can fit my middle finger in up to the hilt, but that's about it. I'm worried that I won't fit and that it'll ruin the night. Is there anything she/we can do beforehand, in the run up, to stretch her to the point where she can accommodate me?
I know about foreplay/lube and such, that's all taken into account. Would lubing up my fingers and trying to fit multiple ones in (one at a time, no rush) work? I'm at a loss as to what I should do, so any and all help will be much appreciated.
