I want to break up with my girlfriend but... -
November 9th 2013, 02:28 PM
I've been dating this girl for 6 months, and at the beginning things were really great. Now its at the point where we fight all the time, shes emotionally blackmailing me, and i just I dont feel happy in the relationship anymore. I dont want to be around her or talk to her most of the time. Our relationship is unhealthy and our friends and parents and I can realize that.
She gets upset over the simplest things, for example if I''m not comfortable with PDA, she'll threaten to hurt herself because in her opinion, it means I'm ashamed to be dating her. If I dont want to have sex with her it means Im disgusted by her. Really, she threatens to hurt herself or does hurt herself in front of me whenever I do something "wrong", so I always end up doing things Im not comfortable with to make her happy.
She thinks were going to be together forever, and whenever she talks about us getting married I agree because I'm stupid and I dont want her to hurt herself. She says if i left her she would never find someone else, because shes never felt like this before and she doesnt think she would again. She always says if we broke up she would kill herself. (I have to take that seriously because last time someone broke her heart, she landed herself in the hospital)
So I really am stuck here, because I know this relationship is bad for me and my health, but I dont want to be responsible for her acctions if I do break up with her.
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