-I was surprised you said yes so readily. I'm glad, but at the same time, it worried me, because the next time an opportunity like that comes up for you, I worry you'll expect me to say yes that readily, too...and I don't know if I can.

-I was polite about it, but I felt embarrassed for you. Even if the reasons I gave you weren't true, I still would not choose to be with you.

-I'd like to, but I'm not sure how I feel about it. After all, the past is still quite fresh in my memory, and I don't know if I can just jump into a similar situation again, even if it could (and probably would) be very therapeutic for me to do so, especially with someone who knows what they are doing in scenarios like this. You make the benefits of it sound so appealing, though, that it's hard to resist your offer.