[Lelola]

Depending on how far out the appointment is, I would start considering options now. I wouldn't run and tell everyone that you're pregnant till about the 12th week because that's usually when the highest risk of miscarriage ends.

Also, some universities do have daycare options for parents who do not have much money.

Do you live in a dorm? If so, does your university offer a family option? If not, how much is housing?

I personally would look at the situation as if you would get minimal assistance from the father. That way if there is a major fight and you end up breaking up with him, you will not find yourself suddenly without income.