Re: Confusion over female work colleague. -
October 30th 2013, 05:13 AM
I find sometimes writing down my thoughts really helps sort them, if you feel like youre thinking about everything and can't take a break from it. I am also quite confused at the moment but i will say that you might consider your relationship with your boyfriend regardless of sam. are you happy with him? and not content - like actually happy? do you want to spend the rest of your life with him? if the answer is no/maybe. then if you do decide to pursue something with sam, and it doesnt last either then you havent necessarily lost something great. perhaps the right person for you is still out there you just havent found them yet. and maybe that person is sam. maybe disregard her gender and think about whether you are happier with her.
i hope this makes some sense, and best of luck. i hope you find your way.
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