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Exclamation HELP - her boyfriend is coming up - October 27th 2013, 09:55 PM
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Long story short, I met this girl a few weeks back, we've grown really close, her boyfriend is coming up to our uni next weekend. This wouldn't be a problem if I didn't have a huge thing for her (almost sure she reciprocates some of these feelings, there's this odd kind of chemistry). It also wouldn't be a problem if her boyfriend wasn't suspicious of something going on between us. She's previously mentioned how lovey-dovey they are (they had a falling out last week, though, relationship's kinda on the rocks).

Anyway, she wants to bring him out with our circle on Saturday night. If they're going to be kissing at any stage of the night, which is very likely given that alcohol's involved, I'm not going to be able to deal with it. If I go, I risk a massive self-implosion happening. If I don't go, I'll come across as pathetic and he'll feel as if he's won (he's a smug bastard). She won't be too impressed, either.

What do I do? I can provide extra details if need be.