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Re: Confusion over female work colleague. - October 24th 2013, 03:37 PM
I can relate a lot. I flip-flop between referring to myself as straight but then I also get bi-curious feelings on occassion. I too am in a relationship with the man I love. We are engaged and I'm committed to that relationship. But certain girls pull me in and I think about what it would be like to be with them.
For you I'd say to follow your heart and do what you think will make you the happiest. There is no shame in that. I think the first step would be to have a conversation with Sam and see what she thinks. Based on that you can decide (we can help, too, if you need it) what the next best step would be.