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Originally Posted by Brittany95
Let me say this again and only ONE more time. I am LIVING WITH TWO MEN WHO MOLESTED ME.
Does that clear up me moving out? Because seriously, YOU keep your child I'm that environment. I'd rather not. My parents did take it well, in fact, my father is excited. Which scares me more.
As far as Justin (the father goes), he doesn't have any family number one, number two he's not at any place to care for a child. Also, state of Florida does NOT have any grandparents rights. And he had as much time to except it as I did. I've told him from the start that I thought I was.
And even if he DOES file for whatever, I'll be moving out of Brevard County the day after my 18th birthday (November 14th). I'll be moving about 3 hours away to Manatee County, not out of state.
And I'm no doubt pregnant, if you knew me and had been around me this past 2-3 weeks, you'd have no doubt either. All of my family knew before I did.
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First off, you never said you were living with two men who molested you in this thread. Yes that changes things. Have you ever told your mother that your father molested you if he was one of the men that molested you? This is a large board and you may have covered the topic in another thread but not this one.
I never said his parents would pursue grandparents rights. It's getting rights for the father to allow them to have rights if he does have family. Meaning he fights to get his parents off his back. Still, you need to be careful as I know people who have had crappy boyfriends that knocked them up that later pursued custody. My one friend's horrible ex managed to get shared custody and split time in order to get her to pay child support because she earns more (they alternate weeks).
Also, you may be expected to drive half the distance for a hand off if he does decide to pursue rights. If you decide not to tell him where you move later on if he does have a change of heart, that is not right.
Also, it may not have been real to him till you actually had the test. Some girls do this after a breakup where they think they are pregnant but don't test right a way and then it turns out they aren't pregnant. He may have written you off as trying to keep him. I am not saying you were, just that is something he may have considered.
The way people act does not mean that they are pregnant. Many women do not have symptoms other than missing a period. In fact, many women who are trying to conceive think they have the symptoms of pregnancy and are convinced only to find out that their blood test is negative. In fact that, there is such thing as a false pregnancy. The false pregnancies are rarer now due to chemical pregnancy tests so just saying you're acting like you're pregnant does not mean you are pregnant.