[Ambiance]

Egh. I've been in the exact same situation. Although, the guy I liked who had a girlfriend ended up being the type that would drink, smoke, party, and hardly talk to me once we started dating. I could tell you to try to talk to him about it, and communication is always for the best, and that would be the best advice. And, yet, there's no use in second guessing yourself if you just don't feel comfortable with the relationship entirely. Or, secure in your feelings would probably be a better way to put it. When I was with my first boyfriend, I was super unhappy. And the second guy I liked just showed me that, hey, there are going to be other people that I like that are interested, even if we can't date. and we did end up dating, it often happens this way. And now I've evolved to look for someone who's not drinking and smoking and partying. It's just a natural process everyone goes through.