[ViceOverVirtue]

My parents where the same way when they found out about my self-harm. They asked to see my arms/legs every single day for like a month and then they started doing it less often. But after they found out they felt like they could just talk about it anywhere, any time. She mentioned my self-harm right in front of my brother before. Parents don't understand that you just want to be left alone about it. I can understand that to a certain extent. If I found out my child was hurting themselves, I'd want to help them stop. But some parents just don't know how to help the right way.