[Lizzie]

The mother of his child and his child are never going to go away. That is always going to be a constant in his life from now on.

You two are not officially together? Why is this? You say that you love him, so why are you not a couple? I personally would not be planning my life around someone who does not want to be in a relationship with me. This is a lot to take on in a relationship and if he doesn't want to commit to you, you might want to reconsider committing to him.

At the end of the day, his child will always come first, not you. Some people are not comfortable with that and that's OK. But I think you really need to consider how you feel about the entire situation and not just him. There are plenty of guys out there for you to love that are not in complicated situations like this.