[Lovestrong.]

Don't worry I definitely know who's to blame in this situation. At first I blamed myself but then I realised actually, I've done nothing wrong, it was him who messed everything up not me.
I had the same thoughts about the checking his phone, I don't believe it's going to help me feel more like I can trust him at all, but it's something I guess.
I do intend to ask him now to get checked. Originally I'd thought about it and decided not to ask him but now you've mentioned it too I think I probably should.
Thank you for all your advice btw, I appreciate it.