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Re: My boyfriend wants to have sex? And I don't know if I am ready? - September 1st 2013, 02:04 PM

As Mads said, communication is key in relationships. Make you tell your boyfriend your concerns and your feelings or he won't know where you stand and this could strain your relationship in future. It doesn't matter how long or short you've both been together, have sex when you're both ready. If you feel 2 months is too soon, tell him. If you just think it's too soon because other people may think that, tough on them, it's your decision and quite frankly, no one else's business. Sex is a private thing and they have no need to be nosing in your sex life, you don't have to tell anybody and that way no one will know. Your concerns in relation to getting pregnant are understandable, that's what stops a lot of people from having sex, although they really want it, it holds them back. I strongly advise you to speak to your doctor about a contraceptive pill. I'm glad that you're aware of the dangers of condom breakage but remember there are more options to you than just a condom. Speak to your doctor about how you feel and they'll be able to guide you towards a better, more safer way for the both of you to properly have sex.
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