I have just got off the phone with my 14 year old cousin, she was crying and really upset, but she's pregnant, she's had three positive pregnancy tests and when she told her boyfriend he ran. She begged me not to tell her parents but I told her I wouldn't make any promises, I told her she needs to tell them, but she's not listening and has this crazy plan that she can run away. I told her that was impossible because unlike most run aways she's pregnant and needs proper care and attention because of her age, she's still not listening. I don't know what to do, I don't want to betray my cousin, but I can't let her go through with her plan. Any Ideas on how I can fix this? My aunt and Uncle are very strict and my cousin naturally rebels against there rules and she's ended up in this mess. My cousin is only 14 and I'm terrified for her, she's a child herself and she is immature for her age and has always been sheltered by her parents. I'm scared for her, she doesn't understand how big this situation is, all she thinks is that her parents is going to be mad at her, she hasn't thought about the fact this is a baby and babies need food, clothes, money ect. I don't know if I should be mad or sad or what, but I want to help her.
--Also I don't want any hate about that I come on here before telling my family because I know people on here has gone through this stuff and will help me more than anyone else because they will over react--