[Eternal]

I agree that it depends on why you got together. If the whole point of the relationship is just to comfort your significant other, then you can run into problems because they might grow to feel like they can't be happy without you. And that isn't healthy because you have to be able to be happy on your own. I also think if a person is in a "broken" state, then they may not be ready to get into a committed relationship until they figure their problems out because otherwise problems can stack up and create a big problem. Relationships take effort, and if someone is already dealing with their own stuff then they may not have enough to give into a relationship which can make it fail if that makes sense.