I agree that sometimes all you can do is wait it out. What is meant to happen will happen. It may seem scary now but everything will work out the way it is supposed to. I would agree with the contacting him but if you are grounded in the way I would imagine you to be then you may not be able to use those forms of communication. You seem to be stuck "between a rock and a hard place" so all you can do is do your best and go with your gut. Good luck!