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Re: Lesbians dating FTM transgenders? -
August 8th 2013, 01:53 PM
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Originally Posted by cherrypie36
Look, who gives a shit? If a lesbian wants to date a FTM, let her.
If she is attracted to someone is FTM and still identify's as a lesbian, let her.
you shouldn't be able to tell someone they aren't lesbian if they are attracted or dating someone who is FTM, how they identify is how they identify and nobody and i mean nobody should tell them how they should.
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No, but the issue here isn't with the person's identity necessarily. It's with whether or not saying you're a lesbian de - legitimises the identities of the trans guys you date. I would never date someone who self IDed as a lesbian because I would feel (regardless of whether or not this was true) that I was being treated as a girl not a boy.
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