Thanks for the further replies, all very helpful. (And Brandon, you didn't disappoint on the brutal honesty bit
) I've been on another date with her this evening and so far so good, but will bear all your comments in mind for future dates. I'm in no desire to rush this and potentially make a complete mess of everything - I'm just going to take it very carefully, one step at a time, and make sure I deal with everything in the right way at the right time.