I need help. I have met this guy lately, and i really like him. He clearly likes me too. Anyways, not so long ago, him and i were making out, and it's normal for us to touch eachother and stuff. But this time he started to finger me, and it really hurt. I am scared it will hurt again, cause I really like this guy. This is the guy I would loose my virginity too. But I am really scared.. How do I either make it stop hurting, or how do I tell him I'm not ready?