Congratulations! That's awesome!!
I'm so proud of you. Stopping self harm is hard but it's so worth it. You're worth it so don't give up! And I know what you mean, I HATE when people ask about my self harm. Especially because it's obviously self-inflicted. But I think people have a hard time excepting that a person would do that kind of thing to themselves - they don't really understand it - so they ask because they aren't really able to connect the dots.