[Lelola]

I would consider evaluating the situation. Having a family that hates you to your face or even behind your back is not a good situation and she is tied to them. I broke up with one of my boyfriends because I could not handle his mother constantly accusing me of being white trash and trying to get pregnant. While it may feel like she is the one, I would consider moving on given the fact that both of you are in high school still and she is dependent on her family. If she was old enough to move out and could support herself, then I would say she should move out and see how the relationship progresses.

I also think the timing of the text messages was bad with the sister's pregnancies. I also do not think you owe them an explanation. A simple "I am sorry that you saw the text messages" should suffice.

If it was me, I would consider leaving her. There are honestly other girls that you will meet down the line. I am not sorry for breaking up with my ex because then I would not have dated my current boyfriend.