[hannahgreenwood]

1) Do you love her?
2) Are you actually ready to marry someone after graduating high school. That's a huge deal. Are you going to have kids? Are you going to work a job and she stay home if that is the case or vice versa? If you aren't going to have kids than you still need to figure out if you all are going to live together?
3) For the relationship to move forward, I think you could buy their family a gift. You could give them chocolates or a bunch of baby stuff for the two sisters or something just so they know that you aren't an immature guy.
4) There's nothing wrong with you. People sext when they are dating. They are just freaked out be expense wise they can not afford another pregnancy.
5) When you do see your girlfriend I would try to ask her how you might be able to win back some trust with the family or what gift they might like. I also think you should make sure she knows you are going to be friends no matter what. If this doesn't work out and the family won't ever look at you the same then make sure you let her know you all are friends and can lean on each other for advice.
6) If you love someone enough they will come back to you. Maybe this family needs space from you for good and if that ends up being the case than you should just keep being her friend until you guys are old enough to have careers and your own places because then the family will know you guys are old enough to caretake for a baby if you all were to ever have one. That is really what they are freaked out about.
7) Sometimes things don't work out just right at first with the person you love. Timing is everything. They will come back to you if it is in your heart of hearts and hers too that you all are a match made in heaven.