[DoctorDon]

Hey guys,

My first time posting. I just thought explaining my situation and talking with strangers would be helpful. I'm being serious, talking to someone you don't know for advice is better than face to face because there is no judgement. Anyway, let me introduce you to Emily.

Emily is an amazing girl for me. Okay, honestly, I think she's the one. I'm 17 and she is 16. We already are making plans to spend the rest of our lives together. We're both smart, attracted to each other (although she has self-esteem issues caused by her mother constantly calling her ugly if she doesn't wear makeup), and damaged.

I am emotionally scarred because of my dad leaving my mom and then coming back. He's a drunk and the most annoying BSer in the world. I can't stand him and both of them favor my younger brother. Emily was my reprieve from hell. She has her own hell, though. Her mom is engaged to her stepfather after her real father cheated on her mother with her mother's sister. Her two sisters (older ones) have both gotten knocked up and Juan and Heidi (although they deserve manipulative lazy controlling loser and shedevil) are incredibly controlling. I would say protective only they never support Emily, or they rarely do it. They win her love with mashed potatoes and Captain America apparel. I was her reprieve from hell.

Things in our relationship were generally good. Her mom actually liked me at one time and her stepfather liked me most of all the boys that their family has brought home (I would like to mention that I am the only one who met the family without knocking their daughter up). Then, I was having a conversation of the dirty nature with Emily via text, and her mom saw the message. Her mom now assumes that we have or we are planning to have sex sometime. She hates me now and says I disgust her - keep in mind this woman got knocked up herself and is trash whereas I am a hardworking A+ average Eagle Scout. I said one thing. I'm human. I made a mistake. I'm a teenage boy for Christ's sake! The truth is that Emily and I are both virgins and we planned to be like that for the rest of high school because we both have promising futures. Her mom has refused to listen to reason and she and Emily's sister, Kim, yelled at her for dating me on the day of my birthday party. Emily shows up at my house and wants to break up with me. THen she realizes she loves me too much to do it at the end of the day. Long story short, her family hates me, and because of that, I never get to see her without sneaking around to her sports practice for 15 minutes. And this isn't everyday either. I'm hated and they can't move on. I don't know whether I should stay with her or not? I know in two years if I stuck with it, I'd say the worst is over, but I don't know if I was a fool to even have such hopes. we've been going out for ten months. Any advice? I'll answer any questions you may have if something isn't clear. Thanks