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Originally Posted by PureStorm
The good ones that advise men on their way. A thing women don't have to even think about, because they get dates left and right (if they want) even if they're average looking and expect men to do all the work. Like I said, I skip the rubbish ones - they're blatant rubbish - but some men can't see that because they're so desperate.
I like how Toy attempts to take that matter in his own hands. Some men are so unlucky that "dates come when you least expect it" doesn't count -- or really when you least expect it, cause you've given up at 50.
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I don't think that feeling bad about it helps any guy though. And generalizing an entire gender isn't fair because that's like saying a girl has never asked a guy out ever and I'm sure plenty have, I know I have. and I for one don't want them to do all the work? And plenty of women level out unlucky too.
But even that's off topic because confidence does help and if men expect women to be confident and not constantly dog on themselves, then it shouldn't be a complete negative for women to want that same comfort.
I think Toy should just be himself and I know that's a generic form of phrase but no one gets anywhere being miserable and it is good he's taking matters into his own hands, because if he feels ready to date, then he should date.