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Hey there,

Now that you have given him time to process what is going on, maybe you can catch him on a day when he is in a relatively good mood. Let him know that you understand how hard it must be on him to know that you are transgender and that this is something that takes time to get used to. But, also let him know that you feel hurt that he is refusing to even try to make any effort to start calling you by different pronouns and accept you. You can let him know that you would even accept "they" or your name. You can bring a friend or someone else who accepts you for support but I'd recommend doing it on a day when he's in a relatively good mood. Another option is speaking to a guidance counselor at school who can meet with your dad and you. Or, if you'd rather, you can write this down in a letter that you give to him. It's worth a try to at least talk to him but if he doesn't accept you, don't let him totally ruin your moods and who you are. Eventually when you're old enough you'll be able to transition no matter what.

Maybe for now you can join a gay-straight alliance or similar program so you can get support from others in the LGBT+ community and their straight alliances where you know you will be accepted, or start getting the support of people such as a guidance counselor who won't yell at you or judge you.

In the future don't let your father's reaction stop you from transitioning if this is what you would feel comfortable doing. Don't deny yourself of your happiness for anyone who won't accept you for who you are. Prove them wrong and let them know that this is who you are and nothing is going to change that. You're still the amazing person you were before, and there will always be people out there who will accept you for who you are. For now, dress the way you want, act the way you want, and speak the way you want. You deserve it!

Keep your head held high and stay strong, you're perfect!

-Dez