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Re: Boyfriends mood triggering cutting, help!! -
May 30th 2013, 05:39 AM
Hey, Barb!
Congratulations on being SH free for so long. You're doing really great and you should be proud of yourself. 
Sorry about this. Being in a friendship or a romantic relationship means we should care and try to be supportive/helpful towards each other. But you can't constantly keep doing this since it's effecting you so much. Can you suggest professional help to him? It could be really beneficial that he talks to someone, for his sake, and yours.
Maybe you could make him a Calm Down Jar for him when he starts feeling this way? And for you too? The Self-Harm Alternatives list is also helpful.
Hope this situation improves! Good luck with everything. Stay Strong.
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