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You don't need to feel pressured to say yes. If he asks you, just tell him you want to be able to take some time for yourself and that you'd love to spend some more time getting to know him and dating him casually. It's more a matter of just not labelling it before its ready. i know that can be a hard conception to play with, but as long as you think it through of how to say "yes, I really want to, but please let's keep dating casually for a little but until I am more ready to be in another relationship", make sure you protect his ego and that he knows how much you want to spend time with him but given that you just got out of a relationship you need more time