Re: Acquaintance Rape? -
April 28th 2013, 03:00 AM
Stacie, if you weren't comfortable with what your "friend" was doing, you should have told him to stop. I know you're upset about this & I don't want to make you feel worse, but I don't see anywhere in there that you said no or stop. Even if it was a "sleep disorder", I'm sure that yelling or screaming no if he kept doing it would have woken him up. I'm sorry this happened & I know you probably feel shitty & guilty, but stuff happens. Tell this guy that what he did, asleep or not, was not okay & you don't want to be friends with someone who doesn't respect your boundaries. & That also means that since you know how he is now, don't cuddle with him, hell don't even be alone with him. But you HAVE to speak up for yourself is something is bothering you.
Remember that this is coming from a friend & I'm always up for a talk on skype or texting. I hope you're okay.
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