My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year, right now it's an LDR (we know each other in person). I really love her, and she's a virgin, and I not. She's really hesitant about sexual stuff and isn't ready to have sex yet. I respect her being nervous and her anxiety, and don't want her to feel pressured? Or regret her first time or something like that, but it's getting hard for me. Coming form a relationship with sex, to not for a year, it's not really a good thing, and there's only so far masturbation will go before its just to get ride of the urge as opposed to being enjoyable (no, I don't want tips or anything). It's to the point where I am feeling sexually deprived and frustrated, but obviously don't want to pressure my girlfriend into anything. What do I do? I can't really wait any longer, but her anxiety makes doing anything kind of a challenge, let alone sex. We've tried to have this conversation between us to find a solution, but it typically just ends up in an anxiety attack, so it's not taking us anywhere, so we've put a moratorium on it. We have very good communication, but this basically just makes her go into panic mode. Obviously I can understand her being anxious and her hesitation, but it's been about a year. Her worry is that she'll lose it and we'll end up breaking up, but that won't change anytime, relationships can end after one year or five.
Any advice? I'm sick of waiting, but don't want to pressure her.
