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Hey there,

I know that from what I've heard from my school guidance counselor, in most cases professionals keep things confidential unless it's in the case of a minor where they are speaking of harming themselves or someone else. But, if you discuss it with your doctor she may keep it confidential if you are willing to speak to her about what is going on. I think that it would be very beneficial to you to speak with your doctor about the self harm because she can help you through it or give you ways to cope with what is going on. If she does have to tell your parents she can explain it in a way that makes it easy for your parents to understand so they know exactly what it is that is going on and allow your parents to ask questions. That's what they're there for after all! She will be able to help you out and therefore I think that the benefit of telling is worth it. As far as individual confidentiality she may have to tell since you are a minor, but again this is something that you would have to discuss with her. I know that I also have had therapists say they won't tell unless it gets bad.

I hope you do end up telling your doctor, as I think it can be really worth it!

-Dez