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That's what I've always thought, like if I was going to cheat on someone it's because my morals/ethics don't tell me that this is something that's wrong, and it's not because I can't be bothered to be faithful... And if I started dating a girl it's not because my last ex "turned me gay" (I've heard that one too), it's because I was attracted to both genders to begin with and it is by no means a smack on his manhood... I think a person can be attracted to "manly men" and "girly girls" without it being like some smack on their masculinity/femininity to be able to transition from one to the other (and I mean dating 1 guy then breaking up and dating 1 girl, not cheating)... I'm just not sure why some people get this idea that it's some how a threat... Like for example, I'd never cheat on a guy (ever) nor would I cheat and be like "well, it was with a girl so it doesn't really count" cause actually it does given my capacity to be attracted to both genders and given our cultures expectation of emphasizing monogamy, if I wanted to be able to go with multiple people and date around I wouldn't commit to a relationship to begin with (not that I am really the sleep around type but that's not my point so much as I am using myself as an example of my point haha)... I think that the idea that "playing for both teams" makes a person a threat or that the person is going to make their partner insecure in someway is ridiculous... I honesty wouldn't care if I had a girl/boyfriend who was bi, I'd just trust they were faithful to me and leave it at that