[MsNobleEleanor]

Hey there Sophie,

There is no rush in being intimate with someone and not everyone does the same thing to be intimate with the other. Some people like cuddling, some like their hair caressed, some like other things and some don't.

If someone is forcing you to be intimate with them, this is not right and it is your body so you can do whatever you would like and Sophie we all should be treated with respect and if someone isn't respecting us, I'd encourage you to leave the situation.

Do you know why you are so scared to be intimate with someone? You have labelled the thread as, "as triggering, particularly on the subject of rape or abuse..." May I ask have you ever been abused so your scared to be intimate with someone or are you scared someone will abuse you?

What makes you say, "I would probably agree to being intimate (because i'm weak like that) but i would just be laid there, shut down physically and would probably cry (because i'm stupid) while he does what he wants."


Sophie, this is your body and what you want to do with it this is your choice but if you let the guy do whatever without your consent this is called, "rape," and it is against the law. Everyone needs to respect the human body both male and female in a way where we are not scared. You are scared that someone will harm you. When you meet someone you shouldn't rush into things, talk about how fast you want to go, let him know you want to be treated with respect and cared for when engaging in sexual activity.


Please be safe Sophie and if you need to write more you can do that.

Take care.