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dating - December 15th 2010, 11:36 PM

ok i want to date but not sure how to boost my confidents i been in abusive and sexual (not wanted) realtionships and advice on how to get over it plz




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Re: dating - December 15th 2010, 11:58 PM

Getting over an abusive relationship takes time. I don't know how long it has been, but if you still feel something, then perhaps you still need more time.

As for getting into the dating scene, for you, i suggest you wait. The correct guy will come along and then you may be ok. But as for now, I just suggest that you take it easy.


I came here to help out, so if you wanna talk or just need someone to bounce ideas or issues off of or something else then send me a message and I will reply as soon as I can.
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Re: dating - December 16th 2010, 12:03 AM

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Re: dating - December 16th 2010, 12:15 AM

Hey there, It's a huge step up that you are wanting to date again. I know how tough it might be, considering all that you went through with past relationships. You have to keep in mind that not all guys will be like that. My best advice to you is just take things slow. Take things at a comfortable pace. Do things when you are ready. For now, I would just say start talking to guys and getting to know them, then take that next step, and maybe start going to places like a quaint coffee shop. The most important thing for you is to keep things at a slow, comfortable pace.


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