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DeletedAccount103 January 20th 2025 03:43 PM

Help!?
 
So I broke up with my ex-bf, right? Well... he wants me back, and I'm dating another guy right now. He doesn't know that. He said if I never liked him he'd kill himself. He said that I'm the only person who he has...my bf doesn't know this conversation is going on, and my ex doesn't know I have a bf rn. I don't know what to do...

¯|_(ツ)_|¯ January 20th 2025 08:13 PM

Re: Help!?
 
Threatening to kill himself is actually an abuse tactic that people do to get you to stay or feel guilty about leaving. It is absolutely NOT your responsibility to even communicate with this guy any longer. I’d tell your favorite teacher what he’s telling you so she can have the right people handle it. If he actually is suicidal he’ll get help and if it turns out he’s just doing it to make you feel bad it might be a wake up call. You don’t even have to answer his messages anymore but keep what he sends you as documentation in case things escalate.

DeletedAccount103 January 20th 2025 10:28 PM

Re: Help!?
 
Technically he goes to a different school, so my school can't do anything.

¯|_(ツ)_|¯ January 20th 2025 10:34 PM

Re: Help!?
 
If you know the school your ex is at they can contact the guidance counselor or administration at that school.

DeletedAccount103 January 20th 2025 10:56 PM

Re: Help!?
 
I do know the school he goes too...He's just in the high school in my town, I'm in the middle school.


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